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A while ago I thought, why does it seem that most prominent black female activists seem to be dating white men? I worry for people in interracial relationships who say, "I don't see colour. I didn't have to explain what okra or a plantain was or why they needed, out of respect, to call my mum Aunty.

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But recently, she has been under attack on social media for having a white fiance - which some have accused her of hiding. I liked it. There was an Irish woman, an informal babysitter, who would pick me up from school. It was almost as if I hadn't left West Africa. When people think about interracial relationships, very rarely do they think of the nuance.

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Around my black friends, if I enunciated my words I was asked: "Why do you speak like a white girl? From our first date we got on.

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If I said that I found a white guy cute some of my black friends would Chicago dating agencies "Ugh! I met my fiance online, on a dating site. I grew up in Peckham in a predominantly black neighbourhood - they call it Little Lagos. My partner grew up under communism in a working class family, and that place of scarcity is something I can relate to as well. I went to a school with a mixture of students - Jamaican, Ghanaian, white British - and I excelled academically and at sport.

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